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3 Weird Ways Girls Test You – Here’s How to Keep a Girl Interested in You When She Tests You

Whether you realize it or not… every time you
interact with a girl… whether you just met her… or
whether you’re in a blossoming relationship… the girl
will constantly TEST you.

This “testing” is part of the process of “creating attraction” that
we men go through in the dating game. It comes with the package.

So if you want to succeed in the dating game, you have to learn
how to pass a girl’s tests.

In this article, you will learn what “testing” is, and how girls test you…
You’ll also learn how to COUNTER those tests, so that you come out of them
more attractive than before.

First, we’ll go over why a girl tests you, and then we’ll go over
how to keep a girl interested in you when she tests you.

A girl might test you when she has doubts about your character.

Maybe you were acting one way before, but today you seem really confident.
If she feels that your confidence might be a bit exaggerated, she will throw
out a test to see if you’re “for real.”

Other times, a girl will use a test to see if you are a certain type of guy
she DOESN’T want, so that she doesn’t WASTE TIME with you. This is why it’s
important to know what you’re doing and avoid accidentally failing her tests.

Using tests is an efficient way for her MIND and INTUITION to figure you out
and “feel out” your qualities. You’ll soon see why.

Here are three reasons a girl will test you, along with ways to PASS those tests
and emerge victorious on the other side…

3 Specific Reasons A Girl Will Test You

Ok, here are 3 situations when a girl will test you, along with ways to
keep a girl interested in you in each situation.

Reason #1 Girls Test You: You’re Putting a “Nice Guy” Act

When a girl senses you’re not being yourself
around her… and that you’re putting a “nice guy act”
…she’s going to test you.

Her “ALERTS” will go up, and this will make
her wonder “is he trying too hard to be nice a guy
just for me?”

When she thinks you are being extra nice to
her, she will feel something about you is disingenuous.

So she will test you to see if you’re being nice
because of who you are… or because you are
using it as an angle to get into her pants.

Her RADAR detects this as possibly
manipulative, and she throws out a test.​

The problem with this nice guy act is that it
doesn’t work anyways.

If the nice guy act was effective at attracting girls, every
nice guy would have hot girlfriend by now… instead of being lonely
at home whining about how the “Jerks” steal all their girls
away.

This brings us to…

Why Girls Feel Attraction Towards “Bad Boys”

Now a lot of guys wonder: Why does it seem
like women like bad boys?

And the reason is that bad boys PASS her tests.

The reason “bad boys” pass their tests, is that they’re
not trying to impress her… and they’re a lot more
HONEST with their actions.

A lot of guys often say “I don’t wana act like an
asshole” but what they don’t realize is that by
being the nice guy, they’re actually “acting” and
being “DISHONEST” while the “bad boy” is
actually being real and passing the girl’s test.

BOTTOM LINE: it’s NOT a bad boy being a “jerk” that
triggers attraction in a woman …it’s the way he isn’t
trying too hard and being more honest with his character
that triggers the attraction.

Reason #2 Girls Test You: To See if You Will Get Clingy or Needy After Hooking Up With You

One of a girl’s top worries is that she’ll go out with a guy who
then gets SUPER NEEDY afterwards.

If you go out and ask an attractive girl about this, she will
probably give you “dating horror stories” of guys who got clingy
on her…

Because of these past experiences, she DEFINITELY wants to avoid
having another “clingy” or “stalker” problem… so she will test you
as a mechanism to see if you will be that kind of guy who will give
her DRAMA and waste her time.

If you give off the vibe that makes her think
you will get needy after going on a date with her,
you will FAIL the test and her attraction will
plummet.

And trust me, you DON’T want to be “that guy” who’s giving girls
these HORRIFIC needy experiences.

Here’s a Tactic to Pass Her “Are You Needy?”
Test

One of the best things you can do with a girl
is to joke around that SHE is the one who will get
needy.

For example, tell her you HOPE she’s not one
of those “stalker” girls that will call you 7 times a
day.

By bringing this up, you indirectly suggest that
you’re not that kind of guy and you preemptively
PASS her TEST.

The result is that 1. Diffuse her worries, and
2. you demonstrate social intelligence

Reason #3 Girls Test You: You Seem “Too Cool”

Almost all guys inevitably go through a phase where they act a bit
too cool and confident… and to a girl it can feel fake, and makes her test
you even more.

When you send a “signal” to a woman that
maybe you’re acting too confident, she will test
you to see if you’re for REAL.

This might happen when she senses that
your “character” is bolder, or funnier than before.

She wants to see if you can always HOLD
that frame.

…or if you’re just talking game, without
backing that talk.

Here’s What To Do Next: Practice Getting Ready For Her Tests

Now go back and think of the last time you were talking
to a girl and she tested you. You can probably remember
how you were acting, and the things she said that was actually
a “test” …and then the most important part… How you
reacted to her test (image – action, test: her reaction, your reaction to her test)

Now I want you to really plan how you will respond to that kind of test
next time a girl gives it to you. Take a few seconds to really visualize yourself
“countering” her test.

K good. Now you are better equipped than you were before. More you
recognize when a girl gives you a test the more you know how to keep a girl
interested in you (by passing that test).

When a Girl Tests You, She Might Be Starting to Like You… Here’s How to Know For Sure

When there’s a girl you really like, oftentimes you can’t
tell if she likes you… and it leaves you all confused.

If a girl is testing you, it’s ACTUALLY a GREAT sign. It
means you’ve stirred something up in her, and it caused her
to want to figure you out (by using a test).

There are other ways to tell if a girl likes you… and
one of the most effective ways is to do the “friend zone” test.

With it, you’ll know if a girl likes you… or if you’re just
in the friend zone.

This test is a simple “under the radar” move you can do with
a girl to check for chemistry. (Learn the Friend Zone Test Here, for FREE)

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{ 6 comments… add one }
  • Frank January 2, 2016, 9:25 pm

    u wrote about trying to impress a girl by acting out who you’re not and then u give hints on how to behave around a girl to pass her test. don’t u think that’s a little contradictory

    • Frankie Cola February 11, 2016, 11:29 pm

      The tactics serve as “training wheels” to help you get started with creating more attraction and getting better reactions from women… But if you aren’t CONGRUENT as you do them… they will only get you so far.

      That’s why it’s so important to work on your “inner game.” The great thing is that you can strengthen your inner game by doing lots of “outer game” and vice-versa.

      So doing lots of tactics might work up to a certain level, but then as you do them over and over again, you get reference experiences that strengthen you from the inside.

  • Miguel Sanchez January 20, 2016, 11:31 am

    why you wanna be with a girl who’s testing you??
    why you gotta test??

    • Frankie Cola February 11, 2016, 11:15 pm

      IF you want to be with a quality girl, you have to know this: Quality girls will test you to see what kind of guy you are. With so many guys chasing her, she HAS to test to save time and make the right choice. Would you rather have a girl who doesn’t care what kind of guy she is dating?

      • Madi August 2, 2016, 2:52 am

        LOL 😂😂😂😂But all is a waist of time for the girl. After that they still be picking the worng guy most of them. They not smart enough. They don’t look for the heart but for the sweet talk. What could I say? Feminine problem.

  • David July 9, 2016, 4:32 pm

    Great article. I put women in three categories: The upfront ones; the shy ones; and the somewhere in-between ones. Shy women are the hardest to determine if they like you and often want to bring a girlfriend with them on a date for moral support and who you have to build their confidence up. The upfront ones you know exactly where you stand (examples: recently a female manager at a client obviously liked me because she called my phone and asked me to come into her office and she was sitting behind her desk as cool as a cucumber wearing a see though blouse and see though bra on underneath; another I met in a bar recently within a hour of chatting to her was asking my thoughts on marriage and kids and how she was fed up of other guys who don’t last; etc). Then there are the ones in-between not upfront but not shy. At the end of the day the secret to dating is “Just Be Yourself” and if she does not like you for who you are (then there are plenty of other fish in the sea – as it were). Never be anything you are not to impress anyone.

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