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4 Cute Ways to Ask a Girl Out Over Text

Here’s the deal…

If you can’t get a girl out face to face with you… you are NEVER going to be able to make a move on her, kiss her, or take her home with you.

Plain and simple.

This is called the principle of “DUH.”

Not following this principle would happen to me over and over again…

I would get into a promising “text conversation” with a girl I liked. She was responding to my texts… “lol-ing” at my jokes… Yet I just couldn’t find a way to convert it into a date.

I couldn’t get her to meet me and it was so frustrating…

I lost A TON of girls because of that, and I bet it’s cost you at least one woman before.

So let’s make sure it doesn’t happen again.


On my journey of trying to figure out how to be more successful with women, I learned a few texting tricks. And in this article, I’m going to share a couple of them with you…

In particular, I’m going to give you 4 cute ways to ask a girl out over text.

You can steal these texts word-for-word, and use them for yourself to handle the “logistics” of getting more dates.

The credit for all these texts goes to Rob Judge, co-creator of Magnetic Messaging.

Here are 4 ways to “spin” a text convo into a date…

Text #1: Know Any?

“Haha, I feel like going on a Star Wars Trilogy marathon, looking for a cute, nerdy girl to watch it with…

know any? ;]”

A HUGE part of texting a girl is knowing how to give a compliment, without coming off like an ass-kissing chump.

And here’s the key: Say flattering things, but say them in a funny, interesting, or confident way.

That’s the best way to express interest and turn a phone number into a date.

The “know any?” text is a great example of this technique.

Inviting a girl to a movie, and calling her “cute” and “nerdy,” but then playfully  negating the invitation by adding, “Know any?” is a great way to keep things SMOLDERING (especially with cute, nerdy chicks).

Here is the General Template:

“I feel like [doing activity] and need a cute, [personality trait about her]
girl to [do activity] with…

Know any? ;)”

Text #2: …Over a Glass of Wine

A big mistake men make when texting a woman is to reveal every detail about their life humanly possible over text before they even go on a date.

Soon enough though, the guy becomes boring and predictable to the woman.

Why? Because by telling her everything about you kills the MYSTERY and sabotages the intrigue she has for you!

So here’s what you should do instead. When a asks something about you, and wants more information about something, you can smoothly turn it into a date activity with her.

For Example:

Girl: “Hey! What are you up to?”
You: “Writing an article at the moment”
Girl: “Cool, an article about what?”
You: “About something I can only tell you about over a glass of wine.”

Sneaky huh?

Now there are several ways to do this.

But here’s a general template:

“Sounds like a good (conversation/discussion/talk) over a (glass of wine/pint of beer/cup of coffee/walk on the beach)”

Can you imagine yourself using this trick?

Look back at your previous text conversations and see if you had a “logistics opportunity” to send a text like this.

Text #3: The Yes Ladder (Yes Momentum)

Ok let’s get really sneaky.

Ever heard of what’s called a “yes ladder?”

It’s actually an effective persuasion tactic used by salesmen to get a series of “yeses” until their last “yes” is…

An agreement to buy!

What this means for you:

If you can similarly create a mini yes ladder for a girl to go through, you can use it to your advantage and get her to say yes when you propose a plan and ask her out on a date… (Insert Evil Laugh)

It’s actually very simple… here’s here’s an example:

“Do you like bowling? (please say yes)”

Or in general:

“Do you like (date activity)? (please say yes)”

So if you get her to FIRST agree that she likes bowling, it increases the odds that she’ll agree to the HIGHER COMMITMENT of agreeing to go bowling with you


You: “Do you like sushi? (please say yes)”

Girl: Omg I love sushi!

You: Awesome. Let’s get sushi tonight at Yoko’s. You down?

Girl: Sure! 🙂

You: Great. Meet at Yoko’s. 7 pm.

Girl: See you there 🙂

Text #4: [Day of the week] nights are [activity] nights

Women feel attraction for a woman who’s ALREADY has the most awesome shit going on in his life.

One way to demonstrate this is by pairing the date activity you want to have with the girl, with the day of the week.

…and then designate it [day of the week] nights are [activity] nights.

So if you want to go bowling with a girl on Tuesday, you can say:

“Tuesday nights are bowling nights… let’s go!”

Now if a girl stops texting you back COMPLETELY.

You can’t do any of this.

But I’ve got something for you…

Here’s a PDF “cheat sheet” with word-for-word texts you can use to get a girl to text you back.

It’s called: “3 Types of Hook Texts That Get Her to Text Back”

Go ahead and get it, I know you’ll get something useful from it.

Specifically, the texts on page 4 of the report have proven to be very effective in getting a girl to text you back.

Best of luck,


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