One of the steps of the “Unlock Her Legs” system deals with how to escape the friend zone with that “hard to get” girl you can’t seem to get out of your head… and getting her to chase you.
If you are currently in the friend zone with your crush, and you want to escape this friend zone… then this is the most important article you’re going to read.
Whenever you are stuck in the “friend zone” with a girl, it means you are in what’s called a “PATTERN of Interaction” with the girl.
This is a very specific pattern of behavior that you actually do, and that you might not be aware of, but I guarantee you… it exists.
Now this isn’t any good ole innocent pattern, this is a VICIOUS pattern that is KEEPING YOU in the FRIEND ZONE… and is keeping the girl from getting any feelings of ATTRACTION towards you.
When you get into this pattern, you are KILLING any attraction the girl could be feeling for you.
Therefore, the more you stay in this pattern, the more the girl sees you as one of the regular “nice guys” who she doesn’t get “feelings” for.
Obviously, you really want to understand what this pattern is all about so you can break out of it and escape the friend zone. So let’s “zoom in” to understand this concept a bit deeper…
There is a pattern of behavior that happens over and over again when you and a girl interact and communicate.
Maybe it has to do with the texts you send her… or the specific types of conversations and words you say when you talk to her… or maybe a repetitive pattern of her taking the lead when you two get together and hang out.
Whatever it is, this pattern EXISTS… and will continue to exist… unless you break out of it and change it.
Furthermore, this a pattern of how a girl thinks about you, in HER mind.
You see, the issue you’re facing right now, when trying to get this girl to “feel attraction” for YOU… is that she does NOT currently associate you as someone she wants to get romantic or sexual with.
Ok, so Frankie, what the HELL do I do to break out of this pattern?!
Here’s what you need to do:
Break the pattern… figure out the rules of the old pattern… and go back into contact and insert a new pattern with new rules.
Step 1: Go “no contact” to create a “pattern interrupt”
This may be the most important step, and here are three reasons:
One, because it stops you from doing anything stupid or desperate. If you’re feeling desperate and you get too clingy on a girl, it can push the girl further away and now you’re really not going to get her.
Two, going no-contact interrupts the pattern between you and the girl and, in her mind, she might even begin wondering what you’re up to. There is a SHIFT that occurs that allows you to insert a new pattern later on.
Three, it gives you time to build Abundance.
As you go no-contact, you reset your mind from all the emotions you’re going through.
When you stop focusing too much on one girl… it gives you space to think clearly. Instead, you focus on yourself, your friends, and other girls… and this is the KEY to building abundance.
Step 2: Figure Out the Rules of the Old Pattern…
To discover what your pattern is with a girl, you need to figure out the RULES that it follows.
You may not realize it at first, but there are “unwritten rules” that make up this pattern.
Some of these rules might be that:
…you don’t take the risk of flirting…
…you don’t talk about rated R subjects…
…you never display “sexuality” around her…
…you never talk about other girls…
Whatever the rules are, these rules are usually “set” from the very beginning – when you two met and started talking… and those rules then kept repeating to form the pattern!
These rules are subconsciously ingrained into you, and followed by you, every time you interact with her.
The problem with this, as you can guess… is that, these rules STOP YOU from getting what you WANT… which is, getting your girl to feel ATTRACTION for you and making her get an URGE to seek you out and CHASE YOU.
This is why you MUST break the rules.
Here are some specific ways you might “break” the rules…
You might start flirting if you didn’t before.
You might bring up PG or Rated R topics in your conversations with the girl.
You might start displaying more “sexuality” around her.
You might bring up a conversation you had with another girl just because you just feel like it, and think that it’s an interesting thing to talk about.
Unfortunately, most guys NEVER break the unwritten rules
Why? Because they FEAR going no contact, thinking it will ruin things. Or because they FEAR getting offending a girl by talking about PG or R-Rated topics.
But as a wise man once said, “All progress occurs only once you are willing to step out of your comfort zone”
Step 3: Get Back Into Contact With Her and Start Doing Behavior That “Creates” New Rules
As you did in Step 1, you injected abundance into your life, and now you have more options.
This should give you a state of mind of INDIFFERENCE.
In other words, you having more options means you worry less about failing with this one girl.
The less you worry, the better, because you get to BE YOURSELF more often. This means you will be more confident and best of all, more ATTRACTIVE to her.
One way this indifferent attitude makes you attractive is because it NATURALLY forces you to send mixed signals. Indifference makes you think to yourself: “I want her… but I don’t NEED her… cause I’ve got other options.”
The result of this attitude is that…
These Mixed Signals Create What’s Called a “Psychic Tension” in Her Mind
You see, what you’re doing in this step is making the girl say to herself “there is something different about him… but I don’t know what it is… and I just have this urge to chase him”
And THAT, my friend, is what this psychic tension is all about!
The thing is, you do actually KNOW what it is that she sees different in you…
You are simply interacting with her with a more abundant-mind attitude… and this comes across as “high-status” so she feels that you are “attractive.”
My friends Bobby and Rob actually discovered that there are 12 specific attraction weapons (coming from abundance) which you can use over and over again to create that psychic tension for the girl to feel.
And they figured out a specific sequence to use these weapons. They call the sequence “The Scrambler”
If you want training that teaches you how to escape the friend zone, the Scrambler is the ultimate weapon to break you out of the friend zone and facilitate that escape.
Here’s how it works… Your aim with the Scrambler should be a girl you already know.
A girl who put you in the “friend zone”
A girl in your social circle you are acquainted with
A girl you went on a date with, but she lost interest afterwards
A girl in your class or workplace
A girl who went to high school or college with, and remain in
contact (even through social media)
A girl you think you’ve messed it up with in the past
The girls listed above are the girls that this strategy will work BEST on. The Scrambler has been tested, and proven effective over and over again on the girls listed above.
If you want to finally date that hard to get girl, click HERE to learn more about The Scrambler
I’ll talk to you again soon.