Your girlfriend isn’t as eager to see you as before, and you are getting deeply concerned about it.
It seems like she’s “fading”… so you want to know how to make your girlfriend want you more.
How do you do it?
(This video shows you how to get your ex girlfriend back)
In this article I’ll reveal a female psychological loophole that makes her want to spend more time with you.
But I have to warn you, the advice I’m about to give you might be a bit controversial… and you’ll probably feel resistance to follow through with it.
If you’re up for it, I encourage you to read along.
Let’s start with a question from our good friend Ernie, who’s in the same situation as you.
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Question: How to Make Your Girlfriend Want You More?
Hey Frankie,
I’ve been regularly seeing my girlfriend on the weekends and we’ve been having sex.
But I want to see her during the weekdays as well.
She says she is busy, however… so we’ve been having some “ups and downs”
What do I do to make her want to see me more?
-Ernie
My Comments: Silence is ok – and it can help attraction grow
Hey Ernie, don’t consider that a “down”.
Having periods of silence in between dates is part of how attraction builds…
and wanting to see her every day will make her lose attraction for you… so be careful!
You want to have her all week, so it worries you when she doesn’t want to see you during the weekdays.
It’s something she resists… so you feel bad about it and think it’s a problem.
However, I encourage to view this as a positive.
See, when you first start dating a girl, it’s vital to create SPACE in between
the times you see her.
But when you crowd her space, or if you complain that you want to see her more often, it makes her lose attraction because she senses you feel needy for her.
At this time, your girl isn’t attracted to you enough to want to see you every day. However, she is attracted enough to see you in the weekends.
And that’s what’s important… that she IS attracted.
Accept that this is where you’re at right now… and start working from there.
Now, your goal is that you want to make her be the one who says “how come I only get to see you on the weekends?…”
You want her to be the one asking to spend more time with you.
How do you make this happen?
To progress to the “next level” and make her be the one who asks you for more, you gota create space during the weekdays, and save most of the interaction for the weekend.
If you crowd her space during the weekdays, you stop her from wanting more, because it kills the mystery.
In other words… you don’t give her the *GIFT* of missing you.
Now it’s alright to answer some of her texts during the weekdays, but don’t do so much like before.
The goal isn’t to have a relationship over text, but to send some brief “radar pings”… like saying hi with some positive emotions.
Now it helps that you give yourself something to focus on and be busy about during the weekdays.
Read my article on how to be a man on your purpose.
When you have a purpose, a career, or some sort of passion you do that is OTHER THAN HER… “giving her space” becomes easier… because you are naturally busy.
Use Mystery to Make Your Girlfriend Want You More
This is how attraction naturally builds up inside a woman when you are “seeing each other”:
You have the most intense date once a week/or spend time together during one day of the week…. and then you create space and allow her to think about you in between dates.
That space that lets her wonder about you is how you create “Mystery”.
But if you text too much in between dates, and you want to make the relationship %100 lovey dovey every single day sending her good morning texts, good night texts, and what have you… it kills the mystery and she feels smothered.
How to make your girlfriend want you more? By using space to create mystery.
Hence, if you create space during the weekdays, she’ll want you more during the weekends… and then in the future she’ll want to see you during the weekdays as well.
The Illusion of Action
Let’s face it, you probably feel resistance to giving her space.
Fact is… when a woman pulls away, most men want to chase.
We get a bad feeling that if we let a woman go and don’t talk to her for a few days… that she’s going to forget about us and we’ll end up losing her.
So you feel that you have to “DO SOMETHING” about it to get her attention back.
Coach Corey Wayne calls this “The Illusion of Action”… and this “action” can cause you to ruin a perfectly good situation if you’re not careful.
I’ll explain why.
See, if a woman is “hot and cold”… those “ups and downs” have a reason.
And falling for the “illusion of action” during the downs can lead to attraction loss.
For example:
Let’s say you have a great date with a girl, but then she gets distant during the week… so you go no contact for a few days, and then she is suddenly eager to talk to you again a few days later.
What can be the reason of this “hot and cold” behavior?
A possibility is that first, she had a great time with you in the date. However, you then texted her too much during the week, it crowded her space, and made her go distant.
You then went no contact… and gave her that space she needed in order to draw her back towards you… which made her eager to talk to you again!
But if you kept pursuing when she got distant, you would have pushed her away even further!
That’s what most guys do when a woman pulls away and they think they’re going to lose her.
All because of the “illusion of action”.
That’s why when a girl gets distant, wait for her to come to you. Don’t pummel her phone with texts saying “what’s wrong”.
When Your Girlfriend Wants to Break Up…
If your girlfriend ends up breaking up with you… then I recommend that you
1. Have a look at this article guide on what to do when she breaks up with you
2. Check out the Ex Factor program:
The Ex Factor shows you how to “re-attract” your ex back and make her fall in love with you again like before.
This is the system thousands of hurt and confused men have used to get their ex girlfriend back… so this is a “proven” system I’m talking about.
==> Check out the Ex Factor here