Love and Heartbreak
There always comes a time in your life, when you realize you’re falling deeply in love with that one special woman…
…and you feel that voice that screams out “DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT”!
But then you get rejected…
She tells you she doesn’t feel the same way and says “let’s just be friends.”
And then you find out she likes another guy and she starts seeing him… while you are left alone and devastated.
You feel CRUSHED.
How do you come back when you get crushed by a girl like this?
How do you deal with this pain?
I’d like to share with you the following quote:
And this one:
The meaning is this:
Your way out of the pain, your way out of the hole you are in, is to utilize the power of “EMOTIONAL LEVERAGE.”
In other words…
Use your pain as leverage to BOSS THE FUCK UP.
Yes, right now, you feel like it’s the end of the world.
Great! That is what you’re supposed to feel…
Because it’s what will drive you to TAKE ACTION!
There is no greater motivator than the pain you are feeling right now.
Take advantage of it.
It should motivate you to go out, socialize, and meet new girls.
Scared? You’re Supposed to Be…
Because as you go through this process of taking action while dealing with fear and Pain… this odyssey becomes your MAN TRANSFORMATION…
Man Transformation: “The Boy Must Die”
Throughout human history, young adolescent males would be forcefully taken in the middle of the night by elder males chanting the phrase “the boy must die.”
They were then left alone in the middle of the wilderness for 3 days without food or water. Left to fend for themselves… they had to hunt for their own food, find their own water, and manage a way to survive.
The point was that the boys were absolutely convinced they were going to die. They were faced with their ultimate fear.
If they survived, the traumatic experience would change them profoundly.
The boy did, in fact, die, but he had transformed into a MAN. It was his rite
Now you’re sitting on your comfortable-as-hell computer chair reading this, and knowing how lucky you are to be in this modern society where you don’t have to go through any traumatic initiation rituals.
That’s the good part of it.
However, something gets lost.
You see, most men these days aren’t actually men, but they are still little boys stuck in an adult body.
Why? Because they never went through their man transformation.
Which brings us back to YOU…
You got crushed by a girl for a reason.
That reason is that you acted WEAK.
Your inner “little boy” came out too much.
And then the universe gave you a kick in the butt that you won’t soon forget.
That kick in the butt is a CALLING for you to transform into a man.
Be thankful for the pain you are in… and appreciate the fact that the universe gives you pain that pushes you to EVOLVE into a more awesome, kick-ass version of you.
However, it won’t be comfortable.
And that’s because…
Evolution Can Only Happen Outside of Your Comfort Zone
To succeed with women, you must gain skill and confidence that can only be obtained outside of your comfort zone.
In other words…
You must take specific actions that go against the particular fears you have.
It’s crazy how well this works… but it has to do with the dynamic between confidence and courage.
See, the most important way to gain confidence with anything is by “DOING COURAGE”. When it comes to meeting and attracting women, it’s all about “doing courage”. If you’re unsure of “what to do” to improve with women, use courage opportunities as your compass.
…if there’s a move, a particular way of acting, or anything that makes you feel resistance with women… then you DO IT… because fear is your guide to “what to do” to improve with women.
Most of the Fear You Have is Baseless
Your ancient caveman brain thinks “If I take risks with women, the alpha male of the group will come beat me in the head with a club.”
This makes you feel FEAR… but you’re fearing something that doesn’t exist.
How to break through it?
With courage, you TAKE ACTION in spite of the fear, and you prove to your mind that the fear is nonsense.
You are still alive.
Demonstrate to your mind that there is nothing to fear, and in return you will receive CONFIDENCE.
And that’s the solution. This is how you get good at stuff. The path to success is taking MASSIVE ACTION against resistance… and you’ll build confidence.
This is how you BOSS THE FUCK UP.
When you get crushed by a girl, getting into motion, and taking action is your way out.
You can either
A) Lay in your bed all day moping like a sad little boy
B) Go out, take action, and take your game to the next level.
The Time to Take Action is Now. Don’t Procrastinate!
Again, take advantage of the state of pain you are in to improve yourself.
The time to take action is NOW. If you don’t, you’ll regret it in the future.
Look, if you’ve read this far down the page, you know getting this part of your life handled is a big deal.
You don’t want to waste this valuable opportunity do you?
You don’t want to think back to today, knowing you could have started a journey of massive action that would have changed your life forever, but you failed to do it.
Maybe you think you have a legitimate excuse, but I guarantee that excuse won’t matter 20 years from now.
You’ll look back to this moment and realize how silly that excuse was.
And let’s face it… what’s more important than handling the most important part of your life?
As a man, the most important skill you will ever discover is how to trigger attraction inside of a woman.
But the sad truth is that most men NEVER learn how to attract the woman of their dreams.
They spend most of their lives feeling frustrated that they can’t attract the kind of woman that they want.
However, this is not you. You aren’t “typical”. You are the guy who relentlessly chases after what he wants.
And if you keep at it, you will succeed.
By the end of it… you will instinctively know what to do when you’re staring at a woman across the room.
One day, that woman is going to be your ideal woman. The woman you’ll spend the rest of your life with.
I don’t want you to not know what to say when that moment comes.