If you struggle to make your text conversations with women “pop” …and women only tend to give you cold responses that lack in emotion and excitement…
Then you’ll want to learn the texting techniques I’m about to teach you in this article.
You see, I’m going to show you how to roleplay with a girl over text.
If you do them right, roleplays are a fun technique you can use on a woman to add a spark to the interaction.
Roleplaying can be used to trigger a woman’s imagination, spark her emotions, and get her wanting to do things with you. These are things that you WANT to accomplish with a girl.
Most Guys Don’t Spark Enough Emotions Over Text
Unfortunately, most guys don’t know how to spark a woman’s emotions over text. Instead, they get stuck in boring back and forth text conversations that don’t lead to anything…
Worst of all, these types of boring text conversations completely MURDER your chances of ever getting the woman out on a date.
Why? Because, in her eyes… you become predictable, boring, and unattractive.
And once she sees you’re just like every other guy who is texting her… it’s game over.
But not you, my friend, because this site is abundant with tons of texting techniques and mindsets that help you avoid this.
In particular, I will soon hook you up with 4 types of texting roleplays that ignite fun text conversations with a woman and make her VERY eager to spend time with you.
So if you’re stuck and want to turn things around with that girl you’re thinking of right now… it’s very important that you listen up.
Before I show you how to roleplay with a girl over text, and give you word-for-word roleplay examples to try on your own… let’s first answer one question:
What the Heck is a Roleplay?
Glad you asked.
When you roleplay with a girl through text, you get into a back and forth text exchange where you both sort of “get into character.”
In other words, getting into a roleplay is getting into a fun “pretend” scenario
with the girl.
Ok here’s a simple example.
Let’s say there’s a girl you’re trying to attract over text, and you text her “I’m at the supermarket. Just bought a gallon of milk, anything else you want me to get?”
and she plays along with “yes hun, we’re low on eggs and cheese, and also get some bread”
Now a roleplay has begun, and you can continue it with something like
“will do, I’ll also get wine, cheese, and grapes for later !”
Keep in mind that this can happen even if you’ve never even met this girl. It’s just a fun flirtatious interaction where you both use your imagination.
How to Start a Roleplay By Utilyzing a “Bait Text”
If you look at the above example I just gave you, you will notice that it provides a technique to start a roleplay.
By texting her “I’m at the supermarket. Just bought a gallon of milk,
anything else you want me to get?” you are throwing her a bait text for her to
latch on to.
She can now decide to play along, or not… but you test the waters in a low-risk way.
Want more examples? You’ve got it.
4 Example Roleplay Ideas You Can Use With a Girl Over Text
Let’s begin with the first.
Roleplay Idea #1: The “Serious Opinion” Mime
This is a fun one. First, you text the girl “I need an opinion on something” …which does a couple of things.
- It throws a hook of curiosity that gets her texting back wondering what your question is going to be.
- It gets her into “autopilot mode” getting her to expect a certain type of “serious” question. Of course, this is just a setup for the element of surprise…
After she texts you back wondering what it is that you want to ask her, that’s when you knock her off of her autopilot by saying something like “I’m thinking about quitting my job and becoming a mime.”
And now, you’ve thrown her a “bait” text with roleplaying potential.
Here’s an example of a text conversation I had using this technique:
How to Get Her Out
As soon as you’ve got her engaged and her buying temperature spiked… you can suggest meeting up by telling her you two should get together to train for the European “mime” mission.
The specific reason you give her to meet up with you isn’t important. You can come up with different “serious opinion” texts that don’t even involve mimes so it wouldn’t make any sense to tell her you need to train for the mime mission.
Okay, onward to roleplay idea #2.
Roleplay Idea #2: The Future Adventure Projection
I love this one.
This type of roleplay consists of a “future” adventure you are having with the girl.
It’s not just effective, but (when done right) can be a lot of fun… and it can lead to setting up a date.
Here’s an example of how I employed this technique on POF.
Frankie: Let’s run away together
Girl: Let’s go! I’ve got the getaway car… Where’s the rendezvous point?
Frankie: Switzerland. After long days running a swiss cheese factory, we’ll spend our nights robbing swiss banks in skintight catburglar suits…
Girl: Lol surely I would be a satisfactory Swiss bank robbing sidekick. Let me go grab my passport 🙂
Frankie: You seem to have the attitude that I like when it comes to heist sidekicks… But let’s at least have a first date… You know, to make sure you’re not really a 350 pound asian man 😛
Girl: Hahaha I’m glad I qualify. But yeah for sure we can come up with our game plan on our date haha. Do people really get catfished on here? I just joined so I’m kinda new to all of this. Lol
Frankie: Yup, I’ve seen some scammy female profiles that I know for sure guys fall for. And girls might get scammed too. For example, some get told they’re going to some European country to rob banks or something and they completely fall for it 😉
Girl: Lol that sucks. Someone should go warn those poor women. I definitely wouldn’t fall for some cheesy trick like that… I can see right through it lol 😉
Frankie:I trust that you wouldn’t fall for any el cheapo tricks like that… that’s why I’m enlisting you as my elite heist sidekick… Gimme your number and we shall discuss more about it. 🙂
Girl: (###) ###-####
As you can see, I was able to escalate this roleplay scenario into a date.
As you go through these types of roleplay… you may start noticing a pattern of how to ask women out that should start filling your brain with ideas of how to handle the logistics problem of spinning a text conversation into a date.
Roleplay Idea #3: The Fake Past Adventure Projection
This one’s a close cousin of the future adventure projection… except you pretend as if you and the girl have a “history” together.
One way I do this is to send her a picture of a cheesy romance novel cover… and pretend it’s an old picture of us.
(feel free to grab the image here http://championsofmen.com/images/rn4.jpg)
Roleplay Idea #4: Hire Her/Fire Her
Now most guys when they text a girl put her on a pedestal and become REACTIVE to what she does. She gets all the power and what you do is DEPENDENT on her.
Instead, the frame you want to set is that you are the CAUSE, not the effect. The type of interaction you want is one where you keep you personal power, are in control, and call the shots.
That’s what this roleplay allows you to do.
This roleplay idea allows you to use push/pull to create sexual tension and gets the girl reacting to you, and proving herself.
Here’s how to start this roleplay. Whenever she mentions something she’s good at, or an area where she has experience, tell her you’re “hiring” her to help you with it. This not only compliments her skill and ability, but it also frames you as being in a position of POWER.
For example, if she seems like a smart girl, say:
“You seem like a smart girl who’s on the ball. I’m hiring you as my personal assistant.”
If she seems like a fun party girl, say:
“So you know about all the nightclubs. I’m hiring you. From now on you’re my personal party planner whenever I have friends come to town.”
You get the idea.
You can “hire” her to do anything.
- If she’s good at cooking… she’ll be your personal chef.
- If she’s stylish… she’ll be your fashionista or stylist.
- If she’s fit… she can be your personal trainer.
Now the fun part is that when she says something corny or lame, you can “fire” her:
“Omg, I can’t believe you just said that. That’s it. You’re fired. Time to look at the resumes of the other applicants ;)”
Most importantly, remember that this push and pull game is all in good FUN. You’re not trying to be mean. You’re simply trying make her laugh and put a smile on her face without acting like a low-value clown and still being in control.
You feeling me?
Ok, now that you’ve learned how to roleplay with a girl over text… take action and go use these examples on a girl!
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