When your girlfriend breaks up with you. You can’t help but feel angry, hurt, and confused.
Not only is the girl you love not yours anymore, but she has completely changed.
The sweet and loving girl she once was with you, has turned COLD and DISTANT… and this makes your heart hurt.
It also doesn’t help at all that your ex girlfriend is completely ignoring you.
After all, you want to do all that’s possible to “fix” the relationship and get her to be your girlfriend again… but when you try to communicate with her, she doesn’t reply.
This is all driving you crazy and impatient… because you feel that if you don’t act at this critical time, you will LOSE HER FOREVER.
Is there any part of her that still loves me?
Can I EVER get her back?
Is there ANOTHER MAN in the picture?
If this is you, read on…
I’d like to share with you an email coaching session that I think you’ll find helpful.
It should definitely give you an answer to “My girlfriend is ignoring me, how do I get her back?”
My Ex Girlfriend is IGNORING ME!
I need few solutions to get my girlfriend back. It’s been a week that we had this break up. I did mistakes of chasing her all the time just to protect her but she didn’t like it much.
Now she is full angry on me. Whenever I call her from a new number, she cuts the call and blocks my number. She says that she has no feelings for me at all and that wants to start a new life away from me.
But now I have completely changed and have been positive but its too late to make her understand. We committed 5 years back, we had so many fights but this is the biggest. Please give me a solution.
M, here’s what you should do: Walk away and never look back. No more contacting her ever unless she contacts you again, then if she does, assume she wants to see you and make plans to meet up.
I am not able to move on. We have been over 6 years back. We fought many times but never had been this much gap. This is the time she haven’t contacted for more than 10 days.
Please tell a solution to get her back.
Right now, the more you try to pursue, the more you WIDEN the gap.
She is treating you like shit yet you keep chasing. That’s weak, man. If she doesn’t even want to talk to you, don’t reward it.
Women want a man who doesn’t accept second-class treatment.
So it’s time to knock her off the pedestal and start valuing yourself more.
The “solution” is to walk away and re-learn to build positive emotions inside yourself, without depending on her. You can do it. You’ve done it in the past.
Go find other girls to talk to.
Even if you don’t feel like it… go through the motions.
Go out with friends, try to have a good time. If you can’t, still go through the motions.
Train yourself to create positive emotions inside yourself without the validation of having your girlfriend.
That’s what girls are attracted to. A man who can pump his “state” up and feel good, regardless of what’s happening. The girl will then feed off of that, and you TRIGGER attraction in her.
That is how to move on from your ex… and at the same time give yourself the best chance of getting her back.
Ok so I need to build up myself and control my motions and stopping contacting her. Ok I will do it.
At present she is living away from me and studying and she will come to her house in exactly 1 month. Her house is near to my mine. Then can I meet her ? Not to plead her but to show her that I was changed.
That’s good, a month is lots of time to start working on yourself.
But going out to meet her when she’s back only shows that you’re still pursuing… and it only shows her that you still haven’t changed.
See, you’re thinking that you have to DO SOMETHING to fix this. This is called the “Illusion of action”… but in reality the correct action is NO ACTION AT ALL…
it’s to do NOTHING… unless she gets in touch with you again. But you have to wait for her.
When she does get in contact with you, THAT’S when you assume she wants to see you, and you say “I’d like to see you, when are you free to get together?” And make a date.
I hope you learned something from M’s email coaching.
If you’re saying “my ex girlfriend is ignoring me”… then the solution is clearly stated above.
You have to respect yourself and walk away from the situation.
In the mean time, I recommend that you read this eBook so that you have a solid foundation on how to re-attract your ex girlfriend.
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