Breaking up with your girlfriend can be like a nuclear bomb completely shattering your world.
A world where she is your light… your happiness… until suddenly you run smack into the REALITY that she isn’t YOURS anymore.
The familiarity between you, the inside jokes, nicknames you shared… all WIPED OUT.
You wished there existed magic text messages to send to your ex girlfriend to get her back.
The bad news is that you won’t be able to find ONE super text message to get her back…
However, you can actually use a COMBINATION of text messages that psychologically and emotionally aim to get her attracted to you again.
When a guy breaks up with his girlfriend, he ruins his chances by bombarding her with texts that reek of toxic desperation, weakness, and neediness.
These texts typically sound like:
“please, I promise I’ll change”
“I miss you, please come back”
“I love you, please don’t date someone else”
If you aren’t able to hold back from sending her these texts, you will probably BLOW your chances of getting her back.
That’s why step 1 right after a break up is to sit back and don’t text her… AT ALL.
Step 1: Hold Your Horses
If you’re fresh off a break up, you are probably being flooded with emotions that make you feel like you need to do SOMETHING, RIGHT NOW.
However, it is critical that you don’t fall into this trap.
- Don’t send her a long text pouring out your feelings for her…
- Don’t try to make her feel bad that you miss her…
- Don’t tell her you love her(even if you do)…
If you’re serious about getting her back, you must hold back from exhibiting these needy behaviors. That’s why, to do this, you must go no contact so that you avoid sending uncontrollably needy texts.
Now as you’re going no contact, that’s when you get a clear mind to actually figure out what went wrong.
Step 2: Figure Out What Went Wrong
A lot of the causes of breakups come down to some form of neediness or jealousy. And these feelings that worry and weaken you stem from what’s called a “Scarcity Mindset.”
For example, if you
- texted her too many needy texts…
- let jealousy get the best of you…
- fell for her too quickly…
…then you probably had a scarcity mindset going on.
Worse of all, these “scarcity problems” lead to behaviors that kill ATTRACTION with your girlfriend. And guess what is the main reason women really break up with men? That’s right… a LOSS OF ATTRACTION!
That’s why step 3 is to…
Step 3: Re-Attract Her Again!
Once you make the SHIFT from scarcity to abundance again, it’s time to come up with a game-plan to re-attract your ex.
It turns out you can create this re-attraction over text if you send her the RIGHT texts.
If you want to discover text messages that powerfully get your ex girlfriend thinking about you again… this video will teach you a proven psychological formula that taps into her primal human urges and takes a woman from hating your guts… to forgiving you.
And now this formula has been transformed into text messages to send to your ex girlfriend to get her back.
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