“Why Did Ex Girlfriend Text Me After 6 Months?” Here’s How You Can Get Her Back

Case study: Ex Girlfriend Comes Back After 6 Months

You may be asking: “Why did my ex girlfriend text me after 6 months?”

When a woman contacts you a long time after the break up, you are excited.

However, you’re unsure of what to do. You want to get her back, but you’re afraid she’ll lose interest again.

You want to avoid this, so you’re seeking answers.

Keep reading and I’ll show you how to deal with an ex girlfriend that’s suddenly back in your life the right way so you can get the relationship to how it was before.

The Secret Female Psychology of Why An Ex Girlfriend Texts You After a Long Time

When she broke up, she had lost attraction for you, and she sought space. She distanced herself from you, and wasn’t interested in interacting with you. That’s what happens when women lose attraction.

However, as time goes by, you see the past relationship with “rose-colored” glasses. You see the positive and filter out the negative.

As she thinks about her relationship with you, she starts reminiscing, and now she’s wondering what you’re up to… “is he dating someone new?” “is he still interested in me?”

You’re on her mind, she’s thinking about you, and wants to see you… so she finds a way to get into your orbit.

This often happens in a very indirect way. She might text you out of the blue… ask you a seemingly random question… or maybe she’ll be more direct and tell you she’s thinking about you. (More Signs Your Ex Girlfriend Wants You Back)

This gives you the glimmer of hope that you can get her back!

You get excited and your heart beats as adrenaline pumps through your body.

However, you must understand something very important: The reason she fell in love, the reason she fell OUT of love, and now the reason she’s texting you again comes down to one thing…

The “Magic” Feeling of *ATTRACTION*… and Whether You’re Making Her FEEL IT!

Attraction it’s not about how much money you make… or how good you look. The guys who get all the girls are usually NOT the best looking guy in the room.

Additionally…

• Attraction lies on a spectrum. It isn’t just “black or white”.
• Attraction isn’t “set in stone”. It isn’t fixed.
• Depending on what you do, you can do things to “pump up” a girl’s attraction for you… or you can do things that “turn her off” and lower her attraction for you.

Whether you create attraction or not has to do with A VERY SPECIFIC WAY YOU COME ACROSS.

For most men, when their ex girlfriend texts them after several months, what do they do?

Yes, they get excited, but they’re also unsure of what to do… and since most men don’t learn this material, they probably don’t “get” how attraction works.

As a result, they come across in a way that makes their ex girlfriend lose attraction. Again.

And I know because that was me. I’ve been there… and understand the typical way we men think about this when we’re noobs.

For instance, attraction is something that gets gradually built, we can’t SKIP STEPS.

We think “she used to love me, now it’s my chance to get back the relationship to how it was before”.

So we try to “capture” her back as if we’re flipping on a light switch.

However, attraction for a woman isn’t just “on” or “off”. The fact she texted you again means there is more attraction now than when she wanted to break up and sought space away from you… but it still isn’t the same intense attraction she felt when she was deeply in love with you in the middle of the relationship.

And when you try to “capture” a woman into a relationship when her attraction level isn’t high enough… she won’t be ready, she will feel pressured and get turned off… causing her to leave you again.

Instead you must do the kind of behaviors that trigger attraction in an ex girlfriend.

You must behave differently than when she dumped you… because those behaviors were causing her to lose attraction.

Read: 8 Specific Behaviors That Kill Relationships

Like I mentioned before, attraction in women gets triggered, and it comes down to how you carry yourself when you interact with her.

Strong Behaviors to Re-Attract Your Ex Girlfriend Back and Make Her Want to Be in Your Arms Again

Are you calm and confident? … or does the “little boy” come out whenever she shows any disinterest?

Are you projecting masculine energy?… or are you projecting feminine energy without even knowing you’re doing it?

Masculine Energy

• It doesn’t wait for permission to move things forward
• It isn’t wishy-washy
• Makes more statements rather than questions. (You can instantly see if you’re doing this over text, with just a quick glance to your phone)

Weak “Little Boy” Behaviors

• Permission-seeking behavior. When you’re afraid of offending the woman… you put more value on her than on yourself. It’s like you’re waiting for “permission” from her that it’s “ok” to act). This also manifests when you ask too many questions.
• How do you react when she becomes distant? Do you double text the woman when she doesn’t text back…. freaking out that she all of a sudden became distant. Sending her a barrage of texts saying “what’s wrong?” “please text me back” “I’m sorry for anything”). When you act like the “little boy”, she instantly gets turned off.
• Turning into her little “pleaser” — devaluing yourself and compromising your principles to make sure you get on her good side

When she lost attraction for you, it was likely you did at least SOME of these kinds of behaviors.

The reason she broke up with you isn’t because you didn’t do enough things for her, or that you weren’t romantic enough. The reason she broke up is likely that you became a “weak” version of yourself that made the woman lose that “spark” of attraction she felt for you.

Chances are you’re still behaving in this “weak” manner, and it’s why your ex girlfriend seems so cold, uninterested, or even annoyed at you.

Right now, you are at a crossroads. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, you must quickly avoid the above mistakes so that you don’t turn her off and waste your chance to get her back.

In particular…

You Must Avoid Going For the “Official Serious Relationship” Right Away

This is what many guys do to ruin their chances of ever getting their ex back. (this is why getting the relationship label back is mistake #2 in the 7 dangerous mistakes report)

Guys think “I must get her back into the relationship as fast as possible!” And they try to convince the ex girlfriend to “get back together” with them.

Instead, let HER be the one to bring up “becoming a couple” again, later.

What do you do instead?

Simple.

Your job as a man is the the following…

• Only focus on “fun”.
• Don’t bring up feelings, relationship labels, past mistakes, drama.
• Only focus on the present moment, and create opportunities to have fun, and get physical.
• Don’t think “try to be her BOYFRIEND”, think: Try to be her LOVER

By the way, this is the same way a man with options would act.

See, a man with options isn’t so trigger-happy to jump into a relationship with a girl. He has options.. so the girl has to be REALLY special.

And when you act like a man who gets laid a lot would behave, you get the same RESULTS he gets.

Namely, you create massive attraction.

Of course, when you don’t have many options, and there’s only ONE girl who gives you attention in the WORLD… what do you do?

You develop a huge CRUSH on her… you obsessively think about her every day… and you quickly try to “lock her” into a relationship. I mean, you don’t want to lose your golden opportunity, so you try to make her all yours. She’s the “love of your life” after all, right?

This is what happens when your brain has all these crazy “love” emotions running through it. Your thinking gets clouded, and you value girls more than you should. Even WORSE, you value girls more than YOURSELF.

As it turns out, this usually doesn’t end well, because the girl senses this toxic NEEDY vibe from you… and she wants to get as far away from you as possible.

But if you are able to expel all neediness from your behavior… you will be able to not only attract your ex back… but make her love for you stronger than ever before.

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