She Dumped You, Now What?
If you’re reading this, you’re probably going through a breakup.
You’re searching online, looking for ways to convince your ex to change her mind and come running back to you…
I imagine you’re feeling like any other guy who’s been in your situation—devastated, hopeless, and occasionally on the edge of emotional collapse.
And the thought of her being with another guy? That thought can make the toughest man feel sick to his stomach.
I get it—I’ve faced my share of painful breakups too.
But here’s the good news: Today could be a turning point for you.
You CAN Win Her Back
Even if right now you think it’s impossible, it’s been proven that 90% of relationships can be saved… and yours is no different.
And here’s why: No contact applied correctly is your secret weapon to winning her back.
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4 Reasons an Ex Girlfriend Comes Back When No Contact is Applied Correctly
1. She WILL miss you if you’re silent
You used to have a routine of things that you did
Texting, calling, getting food, driving certain places, good bye kisses…
That routine is GONE.
And it has created a VOID.
Without the emotional support and without you being there, she’s going to miss ALL of that.
However…
2. There is a timelag before she starts to miss you
When your ex breaks up with you, she is the dumper and you are the dumpee.
The moment fresh off the breakup is hardest for you, and easiest for her.
She is relieved to have all this freedom… all while you’re hurt in deep pain and burdened with the task of getting over her.
But as you go no contact during the next several months, something funny happens…
You slowly start getting over her, and she slowly starts missing you.
She goes from feeling relieved, to doubting if she made a mistake by leaving you.
That’s why it takes a time lag for her to realize she lost something amazing.
When she dumps you she may think “the grass is greener on the other side”…
But after some time she realizes that the grass really isn’t greener on the other side… it’s only greener were you water it.
3. She gets to truly experience losing you
If she dumped you and you’re still chasing her, it makes her feel that she can get you back at any time.
She feels there is no downside risk if she breaks up with you and explores with other men.
You will always be there… She is taking you for granted.
But once you start going no contact, you throw a wrench in it by showing you are LIMITED. You won’t always be there… she feels this when you show enough of your SILENCE.
She’ll wonder “did he move on… is he with someone else?”
And THEN she will truly get to experience LOSING YOU.
One thing that makes your ex girlfriend regret dumping you is that…
4. People often don’t know the value of something until it’s GONE
There is a big difference between believing and knowing.
Your ex may have left you because she wants to explore with another guy.
She believes or feels it’s better to take the risk with the new person, because they feel the “grass is greener” with them.
But they don’t really KNOW if they are better until the new person has all these problems, and they won’t be perfect or ideal.
And then your ex starts to realize that what she had all along, was so much better than anything else they can find out there.
You have to have a strong believe in the value you bring to the table.
Listen to Tom Petty’s “You Got Lucky”, good love is truly had to find.
Your ex may not know this until she loses you.
Sometimes she has to go out and figure out for herself that what she had was so much better.
But she will never regret or change her mind if you continue to pursue her.
You have to let her make this mistake while you focus on yourself.
Dare her to find someone better than you.
She probably won’t.
As you can see, the no contact rule is the most important ingredient to re-attracting your ex back.
When you keep chasing, you devalue yourself by not allowing her to truly experience losing you.
That’s why when you feel anxious, emotionally fragile, and desperate, you’re not in the right frame of mind to re-attract her back.
Because it makes you chase her and ruin it.
Once you’re re-grounded and recovered, it’s much easier to convince her that she needs you in her life.
The Ex Back Journey course guides you though the pain and void you feel during no contact so that you can withstand it.
If she knows you are hurting yet you’re able to hold no contact, she feels your strength as a MAN.
And this maximizes your chances of re-attracting her back.
The Ex Back Journey Course Helps You…
- Recover from your breakup
- Rediscover the “old you”
- Reconnect with your masculine purpose and re-ground yourself
- Get back on track to living your dreams and desires
You will also learn…
- 3 steps to take when your girlfriend breaks up with you
- The right way to use the “no contact rule”
- 3 Behaviors to re-attract your ex girlfriend back…
- The 7 Dangerous Mistakes that stop her from loving you again…
- How to date your ex girlfriend again and make it HER IDEA to be “official” with you again…