The 3 Stages of the Text Pickup and Word-for-Word Texts to Make Women Want You
The other day I got an email from a student telling me he was stuck and wanted me to send him examples of what to text a girl. I immediately knew the problem.
You see, I asked him to send me a transcript of his text conversation with the girl, but he didn’t care about the context of the interaction… He just wanted the damn examples!
Unfortunately, it just doesn’t work that way.
You can’t send any old text EVERY TIME expecting it to work. And it’s because the right texts to send a girl depend on one thing…
The RIGHT Texts To Send Depend On the Stage of the “Text Pick Up” That You Are In
In this article I will reveal in detail the different stages of the “text pickup”… and I’m going to give you word-for-word examples of what to text a girl in those stages.
Text Pickup: The series of texts that trigger emotions in a girl, get her feeling a connection, and then PERSUADE her to take the action of meeting up with you for a date
Now I mention stages, because there are stages you go through during the “text pickup”
If you KNOW these stages, it’s like being able to see the MATRIX. You intuitively know the process, beginning to end, and it becomes very easy to get the girl out.
But if you DON’T know these stages, you feel stuck, powerless, and you send random texts that are lacking in purpose
When you lack in purpose…
- you don’t know where the interaction is going and you easily get stuck wondering “what do I text her next?”
- you send texts that FAIL to move the interaction forward
- you send too many “purposeless texts” that bore the girl and turn her OFF
Instead of wandering into blind alleys wondering “what do I text her?” focus instead on “where is this interaction going?”
That’s why it’s it’s VERY IMPORTANT to have a sequence of texts in your mind… like a map that helps you steer the interaction across the stages of the “text pickup.”
Examples of What to Text a Girl – The 3 KEY Stages That Go From Beginning to End
You don’t have to use these examples word-for-word, but use them as a GUIDE…
The main point I want to teach you is to be AWARE of these stages.
Stage 1: Getting Her Attention And Jolting her into an emotional state
Stage 2: Pumping Up Her “buying temperature” and Forging a CONNECTION
Stage 3: Closing the Deal and Planning a Meet Up
Stage 1: Texts to Send a Girl at the Start of Your Text Interaction
- “Let’s run away together”
“Hey [her name]… [your name] here… - Save this number, it’s the most important you’ll ever get. :)”
- “Just ate a pancake that must have been crafted by the hand of ZEUS…
delicious… hope you had a divine morning as well ;)” - “it’s shark week… made me think of you ;]”
- “Is it too soon for casual texting? I mean I just met you, maybe
we should wait!”
These texts are meant to jolt her out of her trance and get her attention.
Now for some girls, any text will get her attention merely because it’s coming from YOU. With those girls, you can consider this stage CLEARED, and you can proceed to the next stage.
But if you notice her responses to your first texts dwindling, it’s probably because you aren’t triggering her emotions and you are sending the same dull and boring texts all the other guys are sending her.
Stage 2: Pumping Up Her “buying temperature” and Forging a CONNECTION
In this stage, you are raising her state to an even more emotional state and you’re also getting her to connect with you.
Avoid Being Too “LOGICAL”
One mistake that is easy to fall for (usually when you run out of things to say) is to get into interview-mode when texting a girl.
Avoid texts like
- “what’s up?”
- “where are you from?”
- “how was your day today?”
- “what is your major?”
- “what is your favorite color”
- any other purely “logical” texts
These texts activate the logical side of the female brain and that is a BIG NO-NO!
Instead, You Want to Trigger a BURST of EMOTIONS in Her…
Instead, you want to activate a woman’s emotional side of the brain. This gets her in a fun state, and leads to feelings of ATTRACTION.
Once you start getting a girl more emotional, you will notice her giving you better — more emotional reactions to your texts.
Her responses become longer, her texts become more emotional — you see a lot more “lols”… “hahas”… and smiley emoticons.
And here’s the best part:
If you can get a girl more emotional, and pump her state into a higher buying temperature…
Then it gets EASIER to get her to meet up with you
Which is what you want, isn’t it?
Cool, so let’s go over some texts to send for Stage 2… texts that raise her buying temperature, and make a connection.
Let’s start by assuming that I sent the stage 1 text: “Let’s run away together”
And now the girl responded positively to that text by following along with “haha ok, where are we going?”
And now, I spin her response into something that creates a connection and escalates the interaction even further.
For Example:
Frankie: let’s run away together
Girl: Haha ok. Where we going?
Frankie: Switzerland. After spending long days running a swiss cheese factory, we’ll spend our nights robbing swiss banks in skintight catburglar suits…
I have now escalated this conversation into an even more fun interaction and I’m focusing on the vibe of ME + HER… which aims to create a connection.
Girl: Haha! I’ve never robbed a bank… only trains so you’ll have to lead the way.
She follows along, and it’s a real good bet her buying temperature is pumped up.
Frankie: Awesome! But let’s at least get together beforehand, you know… to make sure you’ve get the necessary training
And now… I already have begun Stage 3: Making plans to get her out!
Stage 3: Closing the Deal and Planning a Meet Up
Closing is extremely important. If you can’t close, you won’t get her out… and you will never get to kiss her or make her your girlfriend.
After all, you can’t kiss a number.
So you need to close to avoid getting stuck as the texting buddy she never sees herself doing romantic or sexual things with.
Now there are different ways you can go about this.
And this article reveals 4 cute ways to ask a girl out over text
Now I have shown you the 3 different stages of a “text” pickup:
- Initial spark of emotions…
- Raise her buying temperature and create connection…
- Close the deal and get her to meet up with you
What If She Isn’t Texting Me Back?
If a girl isn’t even texting you back at all, you can’t do any of this… so what do you do?
Don’t worry, Frankie’s here to help ya… and give you even more examples of what to text a girl…
If a girl isn’t texting you back… an extremely powerful tactic is to use an EMOTION CREATING TEXT that COMPELS her to text you back…
And I have put together 3 “magic” curiosity-creating texts that will do the trick.
I reveal them word-for-word in this PDF “cheat sheet”
It’s called the “Girl Doesn’t Text Back Cheat Sheet: 3 Types of Hook Texts to Get Her to Text Back…”
and it’s absolutely free.
In particular, the texts on page 4 have proven to be extremely effective in triggering responses.
Make it happen!
