How to Make Women Respect You (When a Girl Disrespects You)

Does it always seem like women don’t respect you?

Do they treat you like crap and walk all over you. Are you tired of women ignoring you and instead paying attention to other men?

Let’s face it, if women don’t respect you, they’re never going to love you.

Because it’s IMPOSSIBLE for a woman to love a man she doesn’t respect.

You want women to respect you and look up to you.

Whenever you speak, you want the way you carry yourself to demand attention. You want women paying attention and hanging on your every word.

How to make women respect you?

To demand respect from women, you first have to respect YOURSELF.

Why Nice Guys Finish Last

Nice guys subtly and “instinctively” put women on pedestals.

By doing so, they put themselves down, and the women ABOVE them.

If you feel you’re acting too much like a “nice guy” who supplicates to women, then it’s time that you start being nice to YOURSELF

It’s ok to get angry about it. It’s time to wake up and be assertive with what you want.

No more Mr. Nice Guy. (How to Stop Being the Nice Guy)

What Would James Bond Do?

Can you picture James Bond wasting his time on a girl who treats him like a loser?

Hell no.

Think of the girl you are obsessing over right now, ask yourself “why do I like her so much?” Does she deserve it… or is it possible you are idealizing her too much?

To make women respect you, treat your time and affection like a *GIFT*… don’t just give it away for free. When you give away your attention to girls who treat you badly, this screams out that you don’t value and respect yourself.

It also suggests there are no other women in your life who treat you better,
otherwise you would spend time with them and not waste time with one who treats you like dirt.

Related Article: How to Get Your Girlfriend to Respect You (3 Keys to Setting Boundaries With Women)

Stand Up For Yourself By Being Direct With What You Want

Being clear with what you want is an effective way to make women respect you.  After all, when a girl disrespects you, it’s oftentimes because you’re acting “wishy-washy.”

Stand up for yourself by giving them the direct, honest answer of what you want without “sugar-coating” anything.  Women will become surprised and impressed by the honesty… and they’ll sometimes change their mind about you.

Several years ago, there was a woman I was once going to meet from an online dating site. She flaked, and wasted my time. So I directly told her I wasn’t happy about it, and that it wasn’t happening again. Let’s just say I had her respect from her then on.

Another woman I met sent me a text saying she only thought of me as a friend, I directly told her I wasn’t interested in anything platonic. She respected the fact that I directly told her that, and even seemed interested in a “friends with benefits” relationship.

What a U-turn.

Never Accept Second Class Treatment From Women

To make women respect you, you must not accept second class treatment.

• If a woman doesn’t text you back, don’t double text her. Wait for her to come back to you. You want her to invest.
• If a woman says mean things to you, don’t turn into a wussy asking her what’s wrong and why she’s acting that way.
• If a woman shows no interest in you, don’t keep chasing.
• Qualify for the women who are interested in you. When a girl disrespects you, stop wasting time with them. Doing so disrespects yourself plus you waste time you could have used on girls who ARE interested.

Related: When a Girl Flakes on You – Dealing With Flaky Behavior Like a Man of Value

Cultivate the “I Get Laid” Vibe

Women respect men who have the mentality of abundance.

Because here’s the thing…

The qualities that TRIGGER attraction are the behaviors would you do if you had lots of women to choose from. It’s the attitude you have when you are a man who gets laid a lot.

How to Use Texting to Demonstrate You’re the “High-Status” Guy of Many Options

Women respect men who carry themselves like they high-value. Making a simple switch in your texting makes you project this high-value.

Make the following changes to your texts…

1. Investment Principle: How much do you text vs. How much does she text?

The length of your texts has a massive impact on the girl’s perception of you.

Are you texting like a man who’s also texting multiple women? Or are you putting all your literary skills into each and every text?

A student wrote me the other day and sent me a screenshot of a text interaction he was having with a woman.

It turns out he was texting her these long text “novels” while the girl was barely replying with two word texts.

Obviously the guy was trying too hard. He was too invested in the outcome, and the girl was clearly disinterested in him.

That’s why it’s crucial to monitor the investment balance and make sure your text lengths are about the same, or shorter, than hers.

2. Question Marks

Question marks often come off as approval-seeking.

This is something I commonly see when a student sends me their text conversations wondering what’s wrong. Something I commonly see is far too many question marks and it’s making him look extremely approval-seeking.

Scroll through your conversation and see if you overuse question marks.

Practice turning questions into statements. Or even don’t include question marks at the end of questions (I do this often).

Now question marks don’t need to go extinct. Just be aware of them. You can probably eliminate 80% of them from your conversation.

3. Don’t Send Multiple Texts In a Row, Especially, if She Isn’t Replying

This goes back to the investment principle.

If your sending three texts for every text the girl sends, you are investing way too much in the interaction and it’s probably making you come off as “try-hard”…

But even WORSE, is when you send a barrage of texts after a girl fails to respond. It comes off massively desperate.

Instead, wait for her to get back you, and go have a life in the meantime.

4. Avoid Long Text Conversations That Have No Purpose

What is the purpose of texting? To eventually get the girl out face to face with you.

If you’re getting into long “getting to know each other” conversations without asking her to get together, the girl is going to get bored of you and lose interest.

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