Moving on from your ex girlfriend can be tough.
Whenever a student emails me saying “I can’t stop thinking about her!”… I immediately give them the moving on from your ex girlfriend strategy that I will shortly reveal to you.
“But what if I still want her back?” you might say.
And I always reply with this:
The same strategy you use when moving on from your ex girlfriend is the same strategy that re-attracts your ex girlfriend back.
My student Paul broke up with his girlfriend… and now he says “I can’t stop thinking about her”.
What do you do if you’re obsessed with your ex and you can’t move on?
Read on…
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Question: I Can’t Stop Thinking About Her!
I still really love my ex girlfriend… but she is ignoring me.
On her birthday I gave her a gift… hoping that it would get her attention back.
She took it, but later didn’t even talk to me.
I can’t forget her… even my friends also say “move on dude…”.
But it’s not happening to me… to forget.
Can you give me some tricks,
So that I can get her back in my life?
– Paul
My Reply: Your Best Move is to Move on
Paul, your mind right now can’t think of nothing but her.
It can’t even think of the possibility of not having feelings for her.
It’s impossible to your mind…
And it’s all because you’re inside that cloud of emotions that makes you blind.
I know because I’ve been there.
Add to the fact that you invested in her by giving her a gift, and the fact that you did that re-enforces that you need her.
This is a principle of psychology called “effort justification”. All the time and effort you invested in her makes you want her even more.
To get her back… there are no “tricks”.
First because you’re thinking in manipulative terms.
Instead of “being a cool guy to get her back”…it’s like “how to trick her to get her back”.
What I CAN do is show you how to get over her and decondition your mind
to stop obsessing over her.
I wrote an article about this here: How to Stop Obsessing About Your Ex Girlfriend
Yes, right now you can’t “feel” yourself “moving on”…
So all you can have is faith.
Start going out with your friends more.
Just go through the motions… go through the movement of walking outside, and meeting up with your friends.
Force yourself to do it because if you stay home all alone you’re just going to be sad thinking about that girl you can’t have.
Go out, go through the movements, and force yourself to talk to other women.
Just do it, and be open to the fact that there are other pretty girls out there.
There are girls out there who won’t ignore you… girls who treat you first class… unlike the ex who ignores you.
That’s how you move on.
Related Article: “Ex Girlfriend is Ignoring Me, How do I Get Her Back?”
7 Deadly Mistakes That Make Your Dream Girl Leave You
It’s the sad truth…
Most men never learn to attract the woman of their dreams.
They spend most of their lives feeling frustrated that they can’t attract and keep the kind of woman that they want.
And once they are able to attract an amazing woman, they do something to BLOW IT.
The reason is the 7 sneaky relationship mistakes that lead to attraction loss.
I call them “sneaky” because these mistakes are “subtle”… so I’m sure you did at least one of these mistakes without even noticing.
But once you learn these 7 mistakes, you will INSTANTLY become more attractive, just by knowing what NOT to do.
Becoming more attractive not only maximizes your chances of getting your ex girlfriend back in the future… but also attracts other girls into your life in case you can’t get your ex back.
Either way, it leads to a better YOU.
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