Meeting Ex Girlfriend After No Contact

I just finished digging through tons of email, and I found a question that could have a MAJOR IMPACT on *your* quest to win your ex girlfriend back.

It’s freaky weird how a woman comes back into your life for no apparent reason.

(This video shows you how to get your ex girlfriend back)

One minute she seems to be out of your life completely and you’re almost “over” her… the next minute she texts you out of the blue wanting to reconnect and you suddenly feel that you’re “back in the game”.

Suddenly she throws herself back in your life and you feel that you have another chance… How do you make things work?

Here’s a hint: Meeting ex girlfriend after no contact is the KEY… but you don’t want to mess things up.

My student Brian was recently in this very same situation… 

And he asked me two things:

1. How do you make her say “Let’s give the relationship another chance” ?

and

2. What do you do if you can’t get her to meet up and she’s giving you a hard time?

Pay close attention to the answers I give him.

Question: Meeting Ex Girlfriend After No Contact

Hey Frankie,

My girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago. Initially, I was begging and pleading to the point where she didn’t want to speak to me at all.

Then I did no contact for a while and she soon began sending texts to find out how I was doing.

Related Article: “Ex Girlfriend Keeps Contacting Me, What Should I do?”

After we resumed, I made no attempt to convince her to get back together… and she now looks for opportunities to contact me.

What do I do to make her say she wants to give “us” another chance?

– Brian

My Reply: Going “No Contact” Made Her Reach Out, Here’s How You Take Things to the Next Level

Hey Brian, you did great with the “no contact”. The begging and pleading wasn’t working and it only pushed her away…

But once you corrected that behavior and started going “no contact”… she began to reach out and put herself in your “orbit”. (More: How to apply the no contact rule with your ex girlfriend after a breakup)

However, now you’re stuck… and want to know… how do you proceed and take things to the next level such that she is your girlfriend again?

The basic gist is this:

Don’t try to convince her to get the “relationship label” back.

Instead, invite her to meet up… and create opportunities for you to hang out, have fun, and hook up.

While you’re together…

Don’t bring up feelings

Don’t talk about the past relationship or past mistakes

Don’t have a “serious talk” or try to persuade her to be your girlfriend again

Instead, only focus on the “fun”, having a good time, and getting physical.

Have regular dates like this about once a week, (try not to do more than once per week).

If you do this correctly, she will be the one who asks you “what are we?” —
she will be the one who brings up “getting back together” again.

That’s how you do it. Make sense?

***His Reply

Thanks Frankie, but whenever I ask to meet up, she automatically puts up her guard.

How do I get her to voluntarily want to meet up ?

My Reply: What to do When She Doesn’t Agree to Meet You

If she says no or gives you some “excuse” for not meeting up, that’s when you say, “ok reach out when you’re free to meet up”.

If she brings up a schedule objection, say ok “reach out when you figure your schedule out and you’re free to meet up”.

After that, don’t text her again until she does.

With this, you are putting up the boundary that she’s not going to waste your time just being “text buddies”.

You are standing up for what you want: To actually get together face to face.

Once she texts you again, assume it’s because she has decided she’s free to meet up and invite her again.

If she still doesn’t want to, tell her to not text you unless she’s free to meet up.

Next… a success story.

Tom successfully went on a hot date with his ex girlfriend… but then made 1 critical mistake. 

Read on and you’ll see what I mean. (You will probably not think it’s a mistake when you first see it)

Question: My Ex Came Back But Now She Wants Space Again

Hey bro so I read and applied your 7 mistakes report and it worked.

She called me back… we hung out and we had sex.

But I gave her a little gift yesterday and today she asked for a breather again so I’m back in square one.

– Tom

My Reply: You Rushed the Relationship With the Gift

Hey Tom,

I know exactly where you went wrong: The gift was the problem.

You did something right, which is why you successfully hung out and had sex with her… this is GREAT.

However, when you start seeing a girl again, you should only focus on hanging out, having fun, and hooking up, without doing any “boyfriend” stuff.

See, when you start trying to get the relationship back

• By trying to convince her to get together…
• By talking about the “relationship label”…
• Or acting too much like a boyfriend…

…it puts pressure on the woman and she seeks a breather.

Thats what the gift did. It suggested to her you wanted things to be more serious and you liked her too much.

Next time when you get together, hang out, have fun, and hook up, but then don’t anything afterwards.

In fact, wait for her to come to you.

And when she reaches out again, schedule another date and do it again.

Over time, keep doing this and she’ll become more and more attracted to you until she is the one wanting to make you her boyfriend.

That’s how you get her to bring up “getting together officially” again.

The topic of “meeting ex girlfriend after no contact” is critical as it determines whether or not you get her back and KEEP her.

For a great guide on getting an ex back…

…I recommend that you check out the Ex Factor program:

Watch the video here

It shows you how to “re-attract” your ex back and make her fall in
love with you again like before. (I review the Ex Factor in this article)

The “Ex Factor” is the system thousands of hurt and confused men have used to get their ex girlfriend back… so this is a “proven” system I’m talking about. 

==> Check out the Ex Factor here