My Ex Girlfriend is Ignoring Me! How Do I Get Her Back?

When your girlfriend breaks up with you. You can’t help but feel angry, hurt, and confused.

Not only is the girl you love not yours anymore, but she has completely changed.

The sweet and loving girl she once was with you, has turned COLD and DISTANT… and this makes your heart hurt.

It also doesn’t help at all that your ex girlfriend is completely ignoring you.

After all, you want to do all that’s possible to “fix” the relationship and get her to be your girlfriend again… but when you try to communicate with her, she doesn’t reply.

This is all driving you crazy and impatient… because you feel that if you don’t act at this critical time, you will LOSE HER FOREVER.

You wonder…

Is there any part of her that still loves me?

Can I EVER get her back?

Is there ANOTHER MAN in the picture?

If this is you, read on…

I’d like to share with you an email coaching session that I think you’ll find helpful.

It should definitely give you an answer to why your ex girlfriend is ignoring you.

Question: My Ex Girlfriend is Angry and Ignoring Me!

Hi Frankie,

I need a few solutions to get my girlfriend back. It’s been a week that we had this break up. I did the mistakes of chasing her all the time just to protect her but she didn’t like it much.

Now my ex girlfriend is angry and ignoring me. Whenever I call her from a new number, she cuts the call and blocks my number. She says that she has no feelings for me at all and that wants to start a new life away from me.

But now I have completely changed and have been positive but its too late to make her understand. We committed 5 years back, we had so many fights but this is the biggest. Please give me a solution.

– M

My Reply: When An Ex Girlfriend Ignores You, Walk Away and Never Look Back

M, here’s what you should do: Walk away and never look back. No more contacting her ever unless she contacts you again, then if she does, assume she wants to see you and make plans to meet up.

His Reply: I Can’t Move On, Please Give Me a Solution to Get Her Back

I can’t move on. We were together for 6 years. We fought many times but we’ve never been in no contact for this much. This is the first time we haven’t talked for more than 10 days.

Please tell a solution to get her back.

My Reply: She Ignores You and Treats You Like Shit, Yet You Keep Chasing

Right now, the more you try to pursue, the more you WIDEN the gap.

She is treating you like shit yet you keep chasing. That’s weak, man. If she doesn’t even want to talk to you, don’t reward it.

Women want a man who doesn’t accept second-class treatment.

So it’s time to knock her off the pedestal and start valuing yourself more.

The “solution” is to walk away and re-learn to build positive emotions inside yourself, without depending on her.

You can do it. You’ve done it in the past.

Go find other girls to talk to.

Even if you don’t feel like it… go through the motions.

Go out with friends, try to have a good time. If you can’t, still go through the motions.

Train yourself to create positive emotions inside yourself without the validation of having your girlfriend.

That’s what girls are attracted to. A man who can pump his “state” up and feel good, regardless of what’s happening. The girl will then feed off of that, and you TRIGGER attraction in her.

That is how to move on from your ex… and at the same time give yourself the best chance of getting her back.

His Reply: Can I Meet Her in 1 Month to Show Her I’ve Changed?

Ok so I need to build up myself, control my emotions, and stop contacting her. Ok I will do that.

Currently she is living away from me for school but she will come to her house in exactly 1 month. Her house is near mine. Can I meet her then? Not to plead her but to show her that I have changed?

My Reply: Going to Meet Her Shows You’re Still Pursuing and Haven’t Changed…

That’s good, a month is lots of time to start working on yourself.

But going out to meet her when she’s back only shows that you’re still pursuing… and it only shows her that you still haven’t changed.

See, you’re thinking that you have to DO SOMETHING to fix this. This is called the “Illusion of action”… but in reality the correct action is NO ACTION AT ALL…

it’s to do NOTHING… unless she gets in touch with you again. But you have to wait for her.

When she does get in contact with you, THAT’S when you assume she wants to see you, and you say “I’d like to see you, when are you free to get together?” And make a date.

I hope you learned something from M’s email coaching.

If your ex girlfriend is ignoring you… then you’ll find the solution in this article.

You have to respect yourself and walk away from the situation.

In the mean time, here’s another article on what to do when your ex girlfriend won’t talk to you.

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