In this article, I’ll reveal signs a woman is not attracted to you, why she isn’t attracted, and specific techniques to REVERSE IT and make her attracted.
Ok let’s jump right into it and go over the signs of disinterest.
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1. Signs of Disinterest Over Text
Let’s go over texting signs a woman is not attracted to you.
We all have that dreaded moment when a woman goes cold over text.
When you notice a woman becoming distant through text, you get a bad feeling in your stomach that something is wrong. You feel something has changed.
She isn’t eager to text you like before… she often takes hours to reply… and even when she does, it’s only a one or two word response.
When a woman stops investing with you through text… it’s a clear sign she has lost interest.
This is especially true if she used to text you a lot before, but now she has turned cold.
However, she might also just suck at texting, or she’s been really busy lately, so you’ll also need to look at the other signs.
In particular, signs of attraction loss that you get when you interact face-to-face in person…
2. Signs of Disinterest in Person
Now here are ‘in-person” signs a woman is not attracted to you.
When you interact in person, does it ever feel like…
- she’s usually in charge
- she doesn’t let you lead
- she doesn’t give you compliance when you try to lead
- she doesn’t get into the “follower” role like other girls do when they like you.
Is this you?
If this is your situation, it means “frame” is stronger than yours.
You let her have more power in what happens in the interaction, and you let her dictate how the interaction goes.
This happens because in your mind, she is the more important one, so you accommodate yourself to be on her good side.
- She is the more important one and you conform what you do to make her happy.
- Whenever she leads and says “let’s do this”, you follow along because if you say “let’s do this instead”… you’re afraid she won’t want to do it.
- You want to stay on her good side… and you don’t want to “break rapport”.
And by the way, all these elements make up what’s called…
The “Pattern of Interaction”
You see, a pattern gets created between you and any girl.
With this particular girl who isn’t attracted to you, the theme of the pattern is that she’s above you in “status”… and you keep putting her above you by subconsciously making her more important than you.
You do this because you’re in a cloud of emotions that makes you addicted to this girl like a drug. Whenever she texts you, you get a positive “hit” of good emotions. Whenever she stops responding, you worry about her all day.
IN ESSENCE: You depend on her validation for positive emotions… and you don’t want to lose those good feelings that come with the validation.
What’s crazy is that your fear of losing validation makes you avoid doing the things that help you build attraction with her…
- You don’t flirt to avoid rejection
- You don’t talk about “R-rated” subjects that might upset her
- You never display “sexuality” around her…
- You never talk about other girls…
- You don’t risk breaking rapport with her because if she gets mad at you, then you’ll lose her approval and you’ll feel like a puppy lost in the woods.
Bottom line, you feel you need “permission” to act “bold” or say risky things… and this holds you back from doing behaviors that create attraction.
That’s what being “approval-seeking” means.
How to Reverse it
So you’ve realized that you’ve engaged in approval-seeking behavior with a girl you like… and it’s probably making her not attracted to you.
How do you turn this around?
Well, to change the dynamics such that you go above in “status”, you will have to break the pattern of interaction and replace it with a new one.
First, make sure you create a period of no contact with the “main girl”
to give you some breathing room.
Allow your mind to be busy with other things. School, work, friends, other girls.
During this time, reflect to past interactions and gain AWARENESS of the pattern you got into with her. Go back to old text conversations and look at periods where you gave your power away.
Think of the last few times you spoke with her and how it went…
How did she react to what you said? Was she reacting to you, or where you reacting to everything she said and then trying to accommodate to her?
NEXT: Apply the “Scrambler”… (the technique that makes her want you).
(Pay close attention to the 11th minute mark, where Bobby reveals the 4 things that make a girl chase you)
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