Whenever you feel “stuck” in life and you can’t get anything going, then you need something to kickstart you.
Sometimes you suffer a breakup or get rejected by a girl, and that becomes the kick in the butt from the universe that motivates you to make a change.
The more painful the trigger, the more “emotional leverage” you get to take action.
That’s why some defeats should not be seen as a curse, but as a BLESSING.
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Take Advantage of Your Emotional Leverage
If it wasn’t for the painful motivation you’re feeling, chances are you’d still be complacent and not taking action towards your purpose and “calling” in life.
Now if you’re here reading this, chances are you do feel the URGENCY to change.
Something happened to you, and it led you to my website. Maybe it was an experience with a woman… maybe you got fired from a job… maybe you lost someone close to you and it’s forcing you to reflect on life.
Either way, I encourage you to take advantage of this motivational energy you have right now.
Catch the lightning in a bottle… and use it to benefit you.
To help you in your journey, I wrote a set of articles designed to take you from defeat to success.
I want you to understand how “success” actually happens, and hope to inspire you to come up with a plan that helps you reach your goals.
Along the way, you will learn concepts that serve as “tools” and “technologies” that lead to successful outcomes in life.
- How to Use Emotional Leverage to Bounce Back From a Breakup
- 3 “Paths” to Taking Action Towards Your Goals
- How to Focus on Your Goals By Saying “No” and Setting Boundaries
- How to Invest Your Willpower Into Building Habits That Change Your Life
- How to Use Motivation, Willpower, and Courage to Break Through Barriers and Smash Your Goals
- How to Be More Confident With Women – One Simple Confidence Building Exercise
- Being a Man on Your Purpose
- How to Create an Abundance Mentality That Supercharges Your Dating Life
- How to Boost Confidence With Women and Quickly Become FEARLESS
5 Signs You’re Approaching a “Breakthrough”
Tony Robbins likes to talk about 5 signs that you are on your way to a “breakthrough”… even if it feels like you’re not.
I say that last bit because as you read through these signs, you may think “how the hell can these bad situations lead to a breakthrough?!”
That’s because the point when you feel furthest away from a breakthrough is often when you’re actually REALLY CLOSE to making that breakthrough.
So keep that in mind even when your emotions say otherwise.
Ok let’s go through the signs.
Sign #1: You’ve Had Enough
When you’re just tired of it all. Your financial problems, your boring and uninspiring career… and the extra 20 pounds you’ve gained.
Sign #2: You’re Dissatisfied
Whatever you’re doing isn’t working anymore. Maybe it isn’t profitable like before… or it stopped being fun. Maybe you’re tired and don’t have the energy required to accomplish the desired result. Maybe you don’t have the energy you used to have. Maybe you were successful in the past, but your current conditions have changed.
Sign #3: You’ve Reached the “Threshold”
You’re at the tipping point where change becomes a “must”. Maybe you’re facing bankruptcy, or facing a serious health challenge, or you can’t stop arguing with your partner and realize your relationship is no longer salvageable.
Sign #4: You Get an Insight
You discover a deep understanding of something, and it creates an opening. It gives you a new outlook on life and you KNOW you need to make a major change.
Sign #5: You Find the Opening
A door opens… and you step right through it.
Whenever you feel stuck, keep pushing until you reach the breakthrough you’re looking for. Tremendous progress is on the other side of fear, as long as you have the courage to TAKE ACTION in the face of that fear.
