Your girlfriend suddenly broke up with you out of the blue.
You are left stunned, heart broken, alone…
You ask yourself “why did she break up with me?”
Was it something you said?
Did her attraction for you vanish?
Is there ANOTHER GUY attracting her?
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The #1 Reason Your Girlfriend Broke Up With You
When it comes to getting dumped by a girl, the true reason lurking behind it all is ATTRACTION.
You see, when your girl started to “like you” and then became your girlfriend, it was because, one way or another, you TRIGGERED ATTRACTION in her.
And now… she’s probably deciding to break up with you because she doesn’t FEEL that attraction anymore. Because you stopped triggering it in her!
Notice how I said “Feel.” I’m saying that a girl has to feel this attraction for her to “like you” …and you will have to make her feel that attraction again if she’s going to decide to take you back.
If you don’t get her to feel the attraction, no amount of convincing or begging will make her come back to you.
Get the picture?
Because if you don’t get it, you won’t be able to reverse your break up and get your girlfriend back.
Your goal should be to trigger the attraction in her again, and make her feel it.
Unfortunately however, most men simply don’t get this.
Most men don’t “get” how attraction works… and they end up decimating their chances with their ex girlfriend.
Instead of doing the behaviors and actions that powerfully create attraction, the average guy tries to logically convince their ex that she should stay with him.
He begs, gets on his knees, or showers her with gifts and flowers to win her affection back.
Unfortunately though, this does NOTHING… except to make you look like a WUSSY in the eyes of the woman.
Instead, his chances of getting back his ex would dramatically improve if he realized how attraction gets TRIGGERED in the mind of a woman.
He has to realize the attitudes and behaviors he had to create attraction initially in the relationship… AND GO BACK TO DOING THEM AGAIN!
(watch this video to discover behaviors that re-attract your ex girlfriend again)
Now if you want to learn how to re-attract your ex girlfriend back to you, it’s extremely important to learn how attraction is LOST.
How Attraction Fades Away
Here’s the deal… if your girlfriend left you, then she probably feels less attraction for you than she used to feel. (We went over this)
But this also means that somewhere along the line, something happened — you did SOMETHING… that made her lose this attraction.
It’s almost as if there was a “leak” in her tank of attraction for you… and you probably didn’t notice the attraction gradually leaking over time.
Now I’m going to go over the key culprits that kill the attraction in a relationship.
If you’re asking yourself “why did she break up with me?” then you’re probably unaware of the “silent” mistakes I’m about to reveal.
I’m even willing to bet that at least 1 of these mistakes led to the “attraction leak” in your relationship.
I’m pretty damn sure of it… so listen up!
Deadly Mistakes That Decimate Attraction in a Relationship
Have you ever felt yourself doing anything of the following?…
Getting too needy…
Getting too clingy…
Getting too jealous…
These feelings are little tiny viruses that get into your mind and sabotage the attraction you are making your girlfriend feel.
You see, when you get too much into needy-mode, clingy-mode, or jealous-mode in a relationship, it often leads to…
The Downward Spiral of Neediness
Let me explain.
Let’s say you are happy and confident. You meet a girl, and she likes you because you are happy and confident.
Simple enough.
Now it progresses, and she becomes your girlfriend, and she texts you every day… always wants to meet up with you… always “lol-ing” and enthusiastic.
Now this makes you feel very good. It makes you feel even more happy and confident.
But the thing is, you now slowly start getting DEPENDENT on that rush of feelings you get when she treats you that way… and you start getting dependent on her VALIDATION to feel happy and confident.
So now what happens when one day your girlfriend slightly goes cold on you, or doesn’t you back for a whole day?
Your little bubble of validation stops getting inflated, your happiness and confidence starts to go down,and you start to get all worried and acting NEEDY towards your girlfriend.
And of course, your girlfriend now starts acting even MORE distant!
She acts distant because your vanishing confidence and toxic neediness is making you do “needy shit”…
Instead of making her feel attracted to you with your happy and confident character, she now feels that you are acting too much like a “wussy”…
Now I don’t need to tell you that women don’t feel attraction for wussies. THIS is what makes her attraction for you FADE…
And now the handsome co-worker that likes her, suddenly starts catching her eye… because HE is acting more “happy and confident” and that is triggering attraction in her.
Of course, when you feel that your girl is giving another man more attention than you, you get JEALOUS… which depletes your confidence even MORE and you start acting more and more like a wussy, leading to the downward spiral of neediness that ultimately implodes and ends with your girlfriend dumping you.
Can you see how this cycle might happen?
Has it happened to you in the past?
Is it happening to you right now?
If this is you, then here are the next 2 steps you MUST take to reverse your break up.
FIRST:
Stop doing the needy wussy-mode behaviors that pushed her away and made her break up with you. In fact, that’s probably the simplest answer to “why did she break up with me?” — too much wussy-mode behaviors.
The moment you stop them — whether it’s sending “I miss you texts”… whether you’re begging for her to come back to you… or whether you’re sending flowers to her work — that will be the moment you stop the downward spiral of neediness and you start giving yourself a chance to get her back.
SECOND:
Simple. Learn the behaviors that actually DO trigger attraction in women.
In particular, go through the step-by-step re-attraction process revealed in this video.
If you want to get your ex girlfriend back (and I’m guessing you do or you wouldn’t be reading this) this is your ideal first step:
Free Video: How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Before She Leaves For Good
These are a simple series of steps you can take… starting right now, to “re-attract” your ex girlfriend and change the way she feels about you.
All the best.
Your friend,
Frankie
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