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Question: Will I Ever Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend?
There’s this girl I’ve been dating for about 8 weeks now and we have been a little off and on with us fighting and then her wanting me back.
Anyways recently we were fine until I went on a trip to Disney World for a week. During the week we fought quite a bit due to the fact that she’s dealing with family issues, and me being exhausted and tired.
Yesterday she was thinking of breaking up because of the fights we’ve gotten in but we both agreed that we need to improve on ourselves. I had become too dependent on her and she was dealing with trust issues from an ex.
I gave her 3 options.
1. keep dating and actively work on ourselves
2. break up and remain friends and date once we found ourselves
3. was to breakup and not talk again.
Last night she went with option 2 and it was fine but later that night she called me and told me she wasn’t sure and wanted to go with 1.
However this morning we argued again and she said that she’s caught between breaking up and not. We broke up later that day but she said that it was option 2 and she was optimistic, she said she wanted some space and time but she doesn’t want to move on yet.
Please let me know what to do. Will I ever get back with my ex girlfriend?
– Nick
My Comments: First Figure Out What YOU Want to Do
Hey Nick, the first thing you have to do is figure out what YOU want to do. Do you want to have her as your girlfriend, friend with benefits, friend, or nothing at all?
If you want to keep her as your girlfriend, the main issue is something you already kind of know.
You’ve become too dependent on her, and that dependence is what’s probably leading to needy fearful behavior!
It took a while for me to figure this out, but it turns out that the root of all neediness, jealousy, fearful, and other shitty “weak” states of mind are fundamentally linked to scarcity, and not being grounded to your purpose.
In other words, it’s like you’re making her your purpose and it’s making you weak.
If you think she is all you have in the world, then you are screwed. If you feel that if she leaves, you won’t be able to find another woman in a long time… then you’re in DEEP SCARCITY.
Scarcity gives you the fear of losing her, so you get needy and jealous, and worried she will run to the arms of another man. It’s what causes “oneitis.” (by the way here’s an article that covers how to cure oneitis)
Ironically, the more you fear losing her, the higher the chance your fears will come true.
That’s why should you aim for abundance, and make sure you stay grounded to your PATH. Your purpose (in life, career, work, etc…) should be your number one priority.
The woman should NOT be your purpose. And she doesn’t want to be. She wants to join you along for the ride. She wants to join your adventure. The moment she realizes SHE is your purpose, that’s when she loses attraction for you.
What to do to “Flip Around” Her Attraction and Make Her Yours Again
1. If you text this girl every day, you should stop doing that and only use texting as a means to plan getting together.
Focus on your purpose and what you’ve got going on in your life. Use texting only to make dates, and only once a week. But no more.
“Time and Space” is what she needs. So give her the space to miss you.
2. When you meet up, focus on hanging out, having fun, and hooking up, but don’t bring up “relationship” stuff.
If you get into “let’s talk about what went wrong” mode, or if you start asking her about her “feelings” for you… or if you ask her when you two will be “officially together” again …then she will get un-attracted again. So don’t do any of that ok?
Here’s How to Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend
But Frankie, will I ever get back with my ex girlfriend if I never bring it up?
Yes you can.
The way you actually get back together with her is simple. If she’s attracted enough and she enjoys spending time with you, she’ll want to be your girlfriend and she will bring it up. But let HER be the one who does it.
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