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How to Become a Player With Women… Without Acting Like a Jerk

You ever wonder why bad boy “players” get all the girls while “nice guys” go home sad and alone?

I mean we all know of that beautiful girl everybody wants, who’s in an “on again/off again” relationship with a guy who treats her like dirt.

And she always comes back to him… even if he’s broke, acts like a jerk, or isn’t even that good looking.

How is this possible? What makes her so attracted to this guy?

If we’re going to figure out how to become a player with women, we have to focus on one question: “What specific behaviors do players DO to make women FEEL ATTRACTION?”

A few years back, I had the notion that acting like a jerk made women feel attraction. But the thought of changing my personality and forcing myself to act like an asshole just to get women to like me REALLY bothered me. So I stuck with it and sought other explanations as to how players really attract women.

Today, now I know what players do to get those amazing responses from women… and I’ll show you how you can do it too.

And no, you don’t have to act like a jerk to do it.

Why Women Chase Players

Girls are sort of “pre-conditioned” to chase certain types of guys we call “players.”

And I’m not talking about the cheesy movie version a player…

I’m talking about that guy you know who ALWAYS  has a girl he can call.

No matter how late it is – he can pull out his phone and some girl is eager to come over to his place for sex.

And we’re not talking about fat or ugly chicks.

These guys are pulling the “good girl.” The girls you probably secretly have crushes on. The girls you think would never go for him.

But she does.

Time and time again… she chases him, desperately tries to please him in the bedroom, and then she winds up dating him.

So the question becomes… WHY?

Why is it SO “easy” for some guys? And why do other guys seem to struggle with women their entire lives?

The answer is going to surprise you.

The answer is that these guys “THINK” in a very different way than the rest of us.


It’s not their looks. It’s not how “smooth” they are. And its certainly NOT how much money they make.

It’s the way they “think.”

The Fundamental Concept You MUST Understand if You Want to Get Better With Women

The fundamental concept is: Thoughts = Action

This means that the way you think determines how you act.

If you want to learn how to become a player with women, this is extremely important to “get”… so let me give you a ‘real world’ example of how this works in the dating world.

If you think “women don’t like sex” or “I’m doing something wrong by hitting on a woman”

Your actions will be a direct result of those thoughts.

This means that you will probably hesitate making a move on a girl. You will hide your sexual intentions. You will downplay the fact that you want to sleep with her.

And women can pick up on this immediately.

She can sense your “hesitation.” She notices how self-aware you are. She gets a “vibe” that you would be BAD in bed.

Every thought you have produces an action.

Thoughts produce nervous gestures. Thoughts produce needy behavior. Thoughts produce “trying too hard.”

This is why some guys never seem to “get it” …no matter how much dating advice they study.

It has nothing to do with learning more techniques or lines.

And it has everything to do with the way they THINK.

Want another example?

Okay, why do you think girls are “naturally” more attracted to players?

Hint. It’s a trick question.

The answer is that they’re NOT.

Sometimes it’s quite the OPPOSITE. A girl’s first reaction to these guys are to dismiss them. To blow them off. Or even to make fun of them.

You’ve probably noticed this at some point. A girl you knew talked shit about how she wasn’t attracted to his “type” blah blah blah.

…and then she f*cked him… and became desperate to make him her boyfriend.

So how did “thinking” get him laid?

This guy understood one critical characteristic about attraction: that attraction isn’t black or white. It’s a sliding scale.

He’s COMFORTABLE even when a women isn’t giving him signs. When she’s resisting him. Even when she’s actively rejecting him.

Because he knows his only job is to keep tipping the scale towards attraction. He never expected her to be instantly attracted to him. He knew he was was going to have to work for it a bit.

On the other hand…

Too many guys think a woman needs to be instantly attracted to them. And they can’t handle the “grey zone”

The “Grey Zone” is that period where a woman still hasn’t made up her mind about you.

Here’s a secret.

The battle is WON or LOST in the Grey Zone.

And if you want to win more battles you need to change the way you THINK about “attraction.”

Because Thoughts = Action

And every decision you make it sending subtle signals to a woman letting her know if you’re worth talking to…

Learn to control your thoughts… And ultimately you’ll learn to control what a woman THINKS about you.

Here’s the best part.

There are only 7 core thought differences that separate the “players” from the rest of us.

And by learning to THINK like these guys, you’ll begin getting the same RESULTS as them.

If you want to learn how to become a player with women…

Here’s how to send “high status social signals” to a girl and have her CHASING you…

Click here to discover what “players” know that you don’t

When you get “inside the mind” of a player you begin to naturally make the same decisions these guys make… you’ll start getting the same RESULTS that they get.

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