“She will do THIS weird thing when she misses you…”
So your ex girlfriend contacted you out of the blue and now you’re wondering if she wants you back.
Before you see her again and before you send her another text, read this article to learn the #1 biggest mistake men make when trying to convince their ex girlfriends to “get together” with them again.
Now let’s go through some signs your ex girlfriend wants you back.
There are several of them… some more obvious than the others.
Let’s start with the first.
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Sign #1: She’ll Start Calling You By Your “Pet Name” Again
Your ex girlfriend may start using your pet name again as an attempt to build intimacy and “connect” with you again.
She misses the old days… how things used to be between the two of you.
Take her use of your old “pet name” as a sign she’s becoming attracted to you again.
Next…
Sign #2: She’s Eager to Interact With You… and Will Give Quick Replies to Your Texts
If your ex girlfriend misses you and wants you back, she will be thinking about you all day wondering when you will text her again.
So if you notice she’s now texting you relatively quickly compared to before, it’s a sign her attraction for you is growing.
In contrast, her texting probably got colder back when she was losing attraction for you and wanted to break up.
But now that you’re on her mind again, she FEELS more of a spark from you and is on her phone craving your texts.
If there’s a change in her texting, don’t take it for granted however meaningless her texts might seem.
That’s why if she sends you a random text out of nowhere, you must take it as a sign she’s thinking about you and wants to reach out.
Which brings us to the the third sign…
Sign #3: She Texts You “Out of the Blue”
If you’re looking for signs your ex girlfriend wants you back… then you must know this interesting bit on female psychology…
When a girl misses you and thinks about you, she seeks a way to jump back into your “orbit”.
However, she will probably do it very INDIRECTLY.
Meaning, there will be an “excuse”.
Maybe she will ask for help on something that seems trivial…
Or maybe she will just text you out of the blue just to say hi.
Whatever way she uses to “reach out” and get back into your orbit, you should assume that the reason she does it is because she misses you and wants to see you…
…And then suggest getting together.
Say “I’d like to see you, when are you free to get together?” And make plans to meet.
This plan of what to do is laid out in this article… where I go through what to do when your ex girlfriend reaches out after a long time of no contact.
The #1 Biggest Mistake to Avoid
The big mistake men make whenever their ex girlfriend pops back into their lives is that they try to get the relationship back right away.
Doing this too soon turns the woman off and she goes back to becoming distant and not wanting to interact with you.
See, an ex girlfriend will text you out of the blue when she misses you and wants to see you. You’re on her mind… it means she is getting attracted again.
You should take this create an opportunity to hang out and have fun with her… without the neediness of trying to have her back as your girlfriend.
As soon as you get serious and try to lock her down as your girlfriend, her attraction will fade again and you will blow your chance.
That’s why trying to get back the relationship right away is Mistake #2 in my
“7 Dangerous Mistakes That Stop You From Getting Your Ex Back” Report.
“Does My Ex Still Love Me?”
A woman will put herself in your orbit when she misses you and wants to see you.
It will seem random and out of the blue.
And you will wonder where this is coming from because she acted like she was 100% over you when she broke up with you.
However, feelings aren’t “set in stone” and words only matter during the time she said them.
If she said “it’s 100% over” or “we’re never ever getting back together again”… she meant that, but only in that moment.
Now if her feelings change and she suddenly starts thinking of you again, those words don’t matter anymore.
But after some time passes, she may look back at your past relationship with rose-colored glasses… and see the positive.
She’ll remember all the good things you experienced together. And she’ll miss then.
This happens when she knows she will lose you for sure if she never reaches out. If you keep reaching out at her and pursuing her, then she knows she still has you and she doesn’t get to experience losing you for real.
If she still has feelings for you, no contact will amplify them.
Especially if the reason she pulled away was you got needy and crowded her space.
Learning to be away from her is the fix to this.
What to do when she comes back?
When she reaches out and jumps into your orbit, assume she misses you and wants to see you… and make a date.
She will also give you tests.
Are you the same guy? Will you rush the relationship and text her all the time?
Will you do the same thing you did before that made her lose attraction?
It’s up to you to learn what that thing was so you fix it when she comes back.
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