Thinking about writing a letter to get your ex girlfriend back?
Hold your horses!
Because that is a BIG MISTAKE.
If you want to re-attract your ex girlfriend back, the key is to create attraction inside her again.
See, the reason she broke up with you is that she lost attraction for you. Somewhere along the way you started acting weak, in a way that made her lose attraction.
The goal is to get that attraction back.
However, a writing a letter to your ex girlfriend doesn’t address this issue of attraction creation.
How do you get her back instead?
Read on…
***Question***
Hey Frankie, it’s Steve…
Do you have any love letter that I can write that would make my
ex girlfriend want me back no matter what?
If so can I use it?
>>>My Comments
Na man, “writing a letter to get your ex girlfriend back” is a bad idea.
Instead, you must find out why she dumped you and fix those mistakes.
(this article covers 8 sneaky mistakes that make your girlfriend leave you)
Did you act weak?
Did you become needy?
Did you act jealous?
Is she saying she needs time and space and wants to go on a “break”?
Is she saying she’s not ready for a relationship?
Table of Contents
So You Messed Up and She Broke Up With You… What Do You Do Next?
1. First, don’t accept being just friends.
(this article explains exactly what to do when your ex girlfriend still wants to be friends after the break up)
2. Next, remain in no contact
This is a critical step that helps you in a couple of ways.
First, applying the no contact rule with your ex girlfriend holds you back from sending your ex girlfriend a barrage of desperate texts that make you look pathetic and sink your chances of ever getting her back.
See, right now your emotions are HOT. You are desperate to get back together with your ex girlfriend and you have the urge to pour your heart out to her.
However, begging and pleading only makes you look so weak in her eyes that it evaporates all the remaining attraction she still has for you.
That’s why you must obey the no contact rule and hold yourself back from sending anything.
The second reason being in no contact helps you is that it gives your ex girlfriend time and space for her think about you and miss you… which sets things up for her to regain attraction for you again.
Yes, it might feel that “letting her go” and being in no contact is risky… because you think she might forget you in her mind… but that’s your mind tricking you.
The more you pursue and pursue without her reciprocating, the more she loses attraction for you because she feels you are weakened and you can’t handle being away from her for a few weeks.
That’s why you must go no contact.
What About Sending Her Flowers… or Even a Gift?
This article reveals 3 nice romantic mistakes that sink your chances with a woman.
One of those romantic mistakes is sending her flowers to make up for lack of attraction.
Once again, the key is to get her feeling attraction for you again.
Getting a woman flowers or gifts are cool and romantic when you already have attraction going for you, but…
SENDING FLOWERS AND GIFTS DO NOT CREATE ATTRACTION ITSELF
In my experience, “grand gestures” like revealing my feelings for a woman, or making “the big move” of getting her some kind of present only ever got me the “awww you’re so sweet, but I only like you as a friend” speech.
Same applies when you’re trying to re-attract your ex girlfriend back.
The Tried and True “Road” to Getting an Ex Girlfriend Back
If you’re serious about getting your ex girlfriend back (and I’m guessing you are, or you wouldn’t be reading this)…
…then I recommend that you check out the Ex Factor program:
It shows you how to “re-attract” your ex back and make her fall in
love with you again like before.
The “Ex Factor” is the system thousands of hurt and confused men have used to get their ex girlfriend back… so this is a “proven” system I’m talking about.
==> Check out the Ex Factor here
Articles Linked to in the Content Above
8 Sneaky Relationship Mistakes That Make Your Girlfriend Leave You
When a Girl Says She’s Not Ready For a Relationship
When Your Ex Girlfriend Still Wants to Be Friends After She Dumps You
3 Nice Guy Mistakes Men Make With Women – Romantic Moves That Lead to Rejection